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How To Make Using A Dildo More Comfortable

If you've recently purchased or used for the first time a vibrating strapless strap-on dildo, then exploring with your body and finding what you want in your intimate life is the next thing to do. However, it can be intimidating to use a dildo for the first time, either physically or mentally, even if you're exploring all by yourself.

Here's a guide to help you ease into using a dildo for fun and pleasure. When you get more comfortable, you can start exploring your body with a partner of your choosing. Here are ways to make using a vibrating strapless strap-on dildo more comfortable.

You don't have to use all the features at once

If you bought a vibrating strapless strap-on dildo that has a lot of vibrating and pulsing features, know this: you don't have to use them all at once. You don't even have to use the dildo for penetration if you don't want to. Feel free to use your dildo entirely externally and grind on it or just enjoy a vibrating sensation, or use the dildo as an intimate massage tool while you pleasure yourself in a way that is more familiar until you get more comfortable overall.

You don't have to use a dildo in a traditional sense

So long as you are not harming yourself or others when you use your dildo, it's OK to use your dildo in whatever way you see fit, and with whatever other sexual aids you want. Some people use a dildo while holding a pillow between their legs, or prefer to use a dildo while listening to music on headphones. It's up to you — just make sure you clean and sanitize your device before and after each session.

You don't have to have a reason to explore

You don't have to have a reason to use a dildo. You don't have to be single or without a partner, or even with a partner, to explore using one. You can use a dildo just to relax or explore your body a little bit, or to have an orgasm so you can sleep. Whatever reason you have for using a dildo is yours alone, so once you feel comfortable knowing you can use a strapless strap-on vibrating dildo and other styles of dildo whenever you want, you can ease into pleasuring yourself and others with one more successfully.

Your dildo experience can be made more comfortable if you lower your expectations, open your mind, and really enjoy yourself.  


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